Learn a beautiful way to connect and care for each other through massage
Imagine being able to help your partner unwind at the end of a long day, ease tired shoulders or a sore back, and know what to do with your hands when they need a little care.
This private Couples Massage Course gives you time to slow down together and learn practical massage skills you can use at home for years to come. You’ll learn how to give and receive massage with more confidence, communicate about what feels good, and create a nurturing experience that brings you closer.
No previous massage experience is needed. The course is tailored to the two of you, with plenty of time to practise, ask questions and enjoy learning together.
- Feel the everyday stress melt away as you take time for each other
- Learn how to communicate gently, safely and intuitively through massage – with tools like the “Wheel of Consent” and body-language cues
- Create an environment that fosters closeness
- Take time out from everyday life to grow together.
Why not turn your course into a romantic retreat in Nelson? A gentle space to reconnect, unwind, and enjoy each other’s company.
Your Instructor
Elayne has been a massage therapist and teacher for many years. Her approach is direct, sensitive, and grounded — blending professional skill with warmth, presence, and intuition. She teaches you step-by-step, helping you feel confident, relaxed, and fully supported throughout the course.
This private weekend course gives you plenty of time to learn, practise and enjoy the experience together. The course unfolds naturally over the two days, building your confidence, presence and massage skills step by step. The pace is relaxed and can be adapted to suit your experience, comfort and needs.
What you will Learn
This private Couples Massage Course is designed as a weekend experience, giving you plenty of time to learn, practise and enjoy the experience together. The course unfolds naturally from Friday evening through the weekend, building your confidence, presence and massage skills step by step, with time to relax and absorb what you are learning.
Each session is approximately 3 hours long and builds naturally on the last, helping you develop confidence, presence, and flow. Times and session structures do vary according to your needs.
Please note clothing levels and the covering of towels are always guided by what feels safe and comfortable for you. You will not be asked to be fully naked or exposed – your comfort, privacy and safety is a top priority on this course.
Session 1 - Foundations of Massage
Meet Elayne and settle into the space.
Set up your massage room (warmth, comfort, privacy, lighting).
Learn simple, effective massage strokes.
Begin developing listening presence and awareness.
Session 2 - Boundaries, Trust and Communication, Back Massage
Explore consent, the Wheel of Consent, and clear communication.
Build trust and comfort.
Learn back, neck, and shoulder massage techniques.
Understand how to read your partner’s breathing and body cues.
Session 3 - Safe Practice and Front of Body Massage
Safe touch, contraindications, and ethical practice.
Front-of-body techniques.
How to stay grounded, relaxed, and present while giving.
Session 4 - Full Body Massage Flow
Link all techniques into a smooth, confident sequence.
Develop your own natural style.
Learn flow, transitions, and how to “listen with your hands”.
Session 5 - Deepening Intimacy and Full Body Massage
Explore deeper connection through conscious touch.
Full-body massage with enhanced presence.
How to communicate desires, preferences, and boundaries.
Make the Course Your Own
Every couple is different, so the course is shaped around the kind of experience you want to create together. You may want to learn nurturing relaxation massage to help each other unwind, or you may want to explore more sensual massage in a safe, guided environment.
Whatever you choose, we work within your comfort level, boundaries and intentions, with clarity, respect and professionalism throughout.
What Your Weekend Includes
Private tuition created just for the two of you.
A massage table and all the equipment you need.
Simple notes and step-by-step guidance to take home with you.
A warm, calm and beautifully prepared space where you can relax and learn together.
Plenty of hands-on practice, with individual guidance as you develop your confidence and massage skills.
Time to slow down, laugh, connect and enjoy doing something special together.
Your Couples Massage Weekend
The cost for your private Couples Massage Weekend is $850 per couple, payable in advance.
This is a private course created just for the two of you, giving you time and space to learn, practise and enjoy the experience together.
If you’d like to share the weekend with another couple, you’re very welcome to come together. The cost is $700 per couple when two couples attend.
Weekend dates: Arranged to suit you both. The course usually runs from Friday evening through to Sunday.
Venue: Nelson
Bookings: Essential
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this a sensual massage service?
This is a course for couples to learn how to massage each other. I do not provide sensual massage to clients.
During the course, couples can choose the kind of massage they would like to learn. Some simply want practical massage skills to help each other relax, ease muscular tension and feel good. Others may want to include sensual touch as part of learning how to create greater intimacy and connection within their relationship.
Whatever you choose, I am there as your teacher. I demonstrate techniques, guide you and help you develop your massage skills, while you practise with your partner. The massage and touch take place between the two of you.
Not quite ready for a weekend course?
Start with my free Couples Massage booklet and discover some simple ways to bring more nurturing touch into your relationship at home.